dont even send that letter to him....you'll just be demeaning yourself further......use your blog to vent your anger and frustrations.....that's what everyone else does lol more…
I knew a guy just like him once....could have been his twin....he went through women like a knife through butter....used them and tossed them aside......he was no more than a modern day vampire. more…
Have a great weekend. Sex with the ex is the last thing you need though, if you need a good sorting out pull a handsome(ish), younger man and give him a good seeing to instead. more…
If you do, don't do it for revenge. Firstly, His Majesty won't care, other than it might bruise his ego a bit. Your self-esteem, on the other hand, may be temporarily boosted, but ultimately it may leave you feeling even emptier than you do now. more…
because for years ive wanted to get off my arse and start doing different things, the kind of things he wants me to do, but i know, without this kind of push, ill never do them. more…
Move on. Why should you change? This was my thinking too, with my ex: "If only I change, I'm a better person", etc, etc. The fact is the problem did not lie with me but with him. My ex was a controlling, manipulative, bottomless pit of need, and I suspect this guy is too. more…
Im not making excuses for him...or maybe i am lol...he hasnt actually said, change or its over..hes said its over as im not what hes looking for, which is fair enough. its me thats suggested that i make these changes, and only because they are changes that i want anyway. im not prepared to do anything i really dont want to ( yet lol) Its me thats a more…
Recent comments (30)
In response to: "monday" 888 days old
by [Visitor]
you are determined to make an ass of yourself.....he's just another bloke.....not even a very nice one by all accounts.. more…
In response to: "monday" 890 days old
by sallyontour Pro
Move on - it is possible to live without a man you know! I've managed ok for a whole year!
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In response to: "monday" 890 days old
by normalguy [Member]
you are playing dangerous games that can only end in you getting hurt - please stop :) more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
Oh Ive gone one better than that! ;-) more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by [Visitor]
dont even send that letter to him....you'll just be demeaning yourself further......use your blog to vent your anger and frustrations.....that's what everyone else does lol more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
maybe it was him lol more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by [Visitor]
Good for you!
I knew a guy just like him once....could have been his twin....he went through women like a knife through butter....used them and tossed them aside......he was no more than a modern day vampire. more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
thankyou :-) I feel terrible, but its a good thing, I wont have him back now anyway! more…
In response to: "it just gets better" 891 days old
by [Visitor]
good to see that only one of you is taking things badly.
I remember seeing your pic on here....you're a hell of lot better looking than the girl on that photo more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Ah go nuts then ;)
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In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
had no feelings for him..he was just a brief fling to kill time lol more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
If you have sex with him, you think it'll spark those old feelings? Besides, he an ex for a reason :P more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by passiveaggressive [Member]
Have a great weekend. Sex with the ex is the last thing you need though, if you need a good sorting out pull a handsome(ish), younger man and give him a good seeing to instead. more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
he does :-) more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
*seals lips*
Being hung like a horse isnt enough, unless he really knows what hes doing ;) more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
hes hung like a horse tho...omg did i just say that??!!!! more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Dont do it!!!! more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by sallyontour Pro
Sorry you lost your dog, it's always heartbreaking. Take care and have a great (and safe) w/e. more…
In response to: "user tags" 893 days old
by normalguy [Member]
:) be careful aND have fun :) more…
In response to: "thought" 894 days old
by phoenix2k [Member]
Ooh, again something I did well! Go for it I say! more…
In response to: "to his majesty" 894 days old
by FunkyFarmer [Member]
Give da twerp da elbow LOL more…
In response to: "to his majesty" 894 days old
by grumpus Pro
Way to go, Saz! There's plenty more carp in the pond. more…
In response to: "thought" 894 days old
by normalguy [Member]
88| more…
In response to: "to his majesty" 894 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
Thinking about it, they might be versace, all the bloody same to me lol. Id better make sure, beofre i make a prat out of myself!! more…
In response to: "thought" 894 days old
by sallyontour Pro
If you do, don't do it for revenge. Firstly, His Majesty won't care, other than it might bruise his ego a bit. Your self-esteem, on the other hand, may be temporarily boosted, but ultimately it may leave you feeling even emptier than you do now. more…
In response to: "oh what an update!!" 894 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
because for years ive wanted to get off my arse and start doing different things, the kind of things he wants me to do, but i know, without this kind of push, ill never do them. more…
In response to: "to his majesty" 894 days old
by sallyontour Pro
That's more like it! more…
In response to: "oh what an update!!" 894 days old
by sallyontour Pro
Move on. Why should you change? This was my thinking too, with my ex: "If only I change, I'm a better person", etc, etc. The fact is the problem did not lie with me but with him. My ex was a controlling, manipulative, bottomless pit of need, and I suspect this guy is too. more…
In response to: "oh what an update!!" 894 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
Im not making excuses for him...or maybe i am lol...he hasnt actually said, change or its over..hes said its over as im not what hes looking for, which is fair enough. its me thats suggested that i make these changes, and only because they are changes that i want anyway. im not prepared to do anything i really dont want to ( yet lol) Its me thats a more…
In response to: "to his majesty" 894 days old
by sarahjane1234 [Member]
dont get too excited...I havent sent it yet lol more…